how are you today, compared to when we last saw each-other?

how do i seem today, in comparison to when you last saw me?

what is your first memory of me?

what place do you most associate with me?

what is the best compliment you remember me giving you?

since knowing me, in what area do you think I have most grown?

(height jokes aside)

do you think i reflect an accurate version of myself to other people?

when was the last time you felt we really honoured our relationship?

is there anything you envy about me?

would you change anything about the connection we have?

are there any particular fond memories you have that you wish I could have been there for?

what is your favourite characteristic about me?

can you think of a specific time I really displayed that characteristic?

how do you think our connection has changed over the time we have known each-other?

are there any sacrifices you think either of us have made through the journey of our connection? what are they?

do you think that when we are together, there is a certain side to yourself that comes out more? what is that side, and do you share this with other people too?

what is your favourite thing for us to do together?

if you could relive any of our memories, what moment would you pick and why?

is there anything you’ve said to me that you wish you could take back?

do you associate me with any movies/songs/artwork/books?

have I ever given you any advice that you still hold close today?

what advice do you think I need to hear right now?

do you think i am on the right path for me?

do you think i am lead by head or heart? are we the same in this respect?

what 5 bucket list items should we endeavour to do together?

do you have any regrets in the relationship we have?

how is our communication with each-other? would you change anything?

is there anything you’ve always wanted to say to me, but never had the opportunity to?

what is something you’ll never forget me saying to you?

why do you think we find comfort in each-other?

what is the funniest or most rogue moment we have experienced together?

how do you describe me to other people?

in what three areas do you think we are most different?

in what three areas do you think we are most similar?

do you feel seen by me?

what colour do you most associate with me?

what season am i to you?

forgetting my current occupation, what job would you give me?

try and describe the “plot” of Me

why do you think other people think we work well as a pairing?

why do you think that we work well as a pairing?

if you were to surprise me with a drink from the bar, what drink would you surprise me with?

bonus points if you get them that drink

is there anything that i have given you confidence in?

what is the first thing that comes to mind when you think about me?

have i ever pushed you outside your comfort zone?

have i ever taught you anything?

what am i your “go-to” for?

what would you say was a turning point in our relationship?

what helps you maintain the relationships in your life?

do you think I follow the pattern of the kinds of relationships you keep in your life?

how do you think i can be better at nurturing our relationship?

what helps you to trust a person?

how do you know when you feel at home with a person?

do you feel at home with me?

what is something about me that you hope i never change?

what is the most stupid thing you have witnessed me doing?

what is the loveliest thing i have done for you?

if i was an alien what would i look like?

awww you made it to the end! you should hug or something